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Freedom ’14: Setting Myself & My Monkeys Free

Spring Landscape


I’m writing to you from the bush, from the deck over-looking the Olifants river at the Mountain Lodge that I used to call home. And I am complete. A huge chapter in my life that I just couldn’t close for these many years, at last has satisfying resolution. And I am at peace. I actually still have another 24 hours and to be quite honest, I’m ready now (…but my clothes aren’t… they actually do need this extra time to try to achieve a workable level of dryness out on the line). I’ve tied up all my loose ends here and I feel free.


Warm-Morning


While I did raise 9 orphans, the troop (KC) and single baboon (Gabriel) that are dearest to my heart and that I’ve most ached to see set free have now been released. Dream realised. It was a process begun 10 years ago – early in their fractionated lives – with the promise that one day they’d return to the wild – that we could be entrusted to set right what had been made wrong. And with the enthusiastic idealism that comes so naturally to burgeoning adults with unwavering passion in their hearts, there was no question that this day would come… that the necessary release permits that the government had no interest in issuing would be there, that the laws discriminating against these animals would be resolved by the time they were ready, that the general public distaste for these misunderstood and under-appreciated beings would be neutralized, that the perfect piece of land on which to release them would materialize, and that the maze of a flowchart ‘Can We Release Them?’ that had over and over lead to Not Possible for too many troops before them… would open up for KC Troop to slide right through to that elusive YES! Let’s Do It! at the perfect age and not a day later. It would work out… somehow. It had to.


As the years passed, and the naiveté of youth was tempered with time, I’ll admit, in dark, still moments that I couldn’t bear to look at head on, I’d catch a glimpse of fear that maybe our promise to them might not be fulfilled… That they’d live out their lives in captivity in too-small enclosures, growing stereotypic and frustrated as the years passed, their once bursting vibrancy dulling like an old coin one would rather not pick up. That possibility – even the whisper of it – was too heartbreaking for me handle. So I looked away.


Thankfully others did not. Stephen, my Scottish heart-brother and work partner with whom I discovering the baboons, the bush and early adulthood, never gave up through all the unbelievable hardships and innumerable moments when finding a way through seemed impossible. We both came to CARE at the tender age of 19 and discovered a passion in ourselves (under the tutelage of Founder and Director, Rita Miljo) that we would not abandon for anything imaginable.


At the age of 23, heart surgery was most certainly outside the realm of my imagination. I understand now that my destiny was not to stay there and it took a message of that magnitude to lead (or force) me onward toward my path of greatest service and realization. But I fought it like hell and I carried a great deal of guilt and shame for not fighting even harder when I finally realized that returning to CARE (four weeks after heart surgery as I was determined to do) was actually not an option. This journey back has finally enabled me to cut loose those last strings of guilt and shame that have weighed me down. I embrace the levity.


Stephen, now Director of CARE (and truly the best person for the job), has been at CARE this whole time. Fortunately for all the baboons at CARE, staying was his destiny. And through his hard work and dedication (and that of so many others), this release that we so fervently dreamed of has been born into reality.


Old Friends picking up where we Left Off

Old Friends Picking up Where we Left Off


It was with Stephen that I experienced the precious, precious gift of nearly two weeks in the bush amongst our KC Troop… witnessing their troop cohesiveness, experiencing their peace, and savouring truly every moment that I simply got to watch Gabriel BE. Thirteen hours in the field every day flew by like a warm, gentle breeze. I was so at peace, so content. Wanting nothing more than everything I had in those moments. Well… I guess that’s not completely true. I deeply wanted to talk to Gabriel, to groom him and be groomed by him in his most unique way which I will soon describe.  The image of which continuously charms my heart and makes me laugh.


Normally, baboons lipsmack when they groom; basically they quickly open and close their lips with their tongue darting in and out, making a friendly and reassuring sound. Most males don’t do much grooming and aren’t the best at it, though Gabriel’s troop actually has a really high frequency of male grooming (with females, children and each other), an indicator (as I see it) of what a lovely troop they are.


Gabriel has this thing about his lips and his mouth. Ever since he was a baby, you’d often find him with his lower lip just hanging open.
Young Gabriel with his Relaxed Mouth

Young Gabriel with his Relaxed Mouth


I’ve seen no other baboon do this. And out on the release now, whenever he’d be sleeping, you could be sure his lip was just hanging out, exposing his gums and mandibular chompers.  Sometimes you’d catch him having a really good snooze with his big, pink tongue starting to ooze out from between his teeth. Hilarious. So dignified.


Gabriel Having a Snooze

Adult Gabriel Having a Snooze


But getting back to the grooming… as he embarked on his juvenile years (around 2yrs), he started trying to groom his mama from time to time. He’d sit alongside Cricket, the alpha female and pro-groomer, intently watching her grooming technique as she expertly sorted through my hair and skin, looking for little scabs or dry flakes of skin or dirt to kindly remove. Then he’d try. He’d climb up to bat with some lipsmacks and proceeded to mimic Cricket’s technique as best he could. This involved frequent pauses to look over at Cricket to refresh his memory. Then he’d turn back to my leg or foot or whatever body part he’d selected and proceed clumsily through the exercise.


Juvenile Gabriel, ~2 years old

Juvenile Gabriel, ~2 years old

I obviously adored these practice sessions, though they sometimes left me with painfully removed scabs and still-attached hairs, as well as the occasional bloody nose. When he would over-zealously shove a grooming finger up my nose and see the warm, red stream of blood that followed, he would look instantly stricken with remorse, hold one or both hands to my face and stare at me, both uncertain of what to do next and mesmerized by what was happening.


Possibly my favorite aspect of Gabriel’s grooming was what happened to his mouth while he did it. When it comes to intelligence, Gabriel has top marks; when it comes to coordination… not so much. As I mentioned, normally baboons lipsmack nearly continuously while grooming. But Gabriel would concentrate with such determination while he groomed, that he invariably couldn’t keep up both grooming and lipsmacking, and the lipsmacking would unravel. His tongue would keep going but his lips would get out of sink and fail to close completely at their due intervals. In short order, the lip action would be abandoned entirely and his lips would retreat to a pulled back position revealing his big teeth. Then the tongue would miss a beat, grow intermittent, and succumb to the simple pleasure of curling over in the side of his mouth. Every so often his mind would check back in with his mouth and he’d throw in 2.5 proper lipsmacks before devolving back into the gaping mouth, wriggling tongue mode.


Gabe-tongue

That’s just his Style.


Out on the release, I knew I could have interacted with him directly: talked and chatted with one another (me with words, him with baboon chatter and excited grunts), sat together and groomed. But with the exception of some excited hellos my first couple days, I didn’t do any of that. On my second day, I rested under the prime real estate of some small, shady trees watching Gabriel forage a few meters away. Satisfied with his yield of grasshoppers and grasses within his radius and sleepy from the sun, he stood up, walked right up to me and sat beside me, sharing the umbrella of shade. He pinned his ears back and chattered to me in the full belly- and shoulder-bouncing unmistakably friendly way of baboons.

Admittedly, I was both gleeful to have my boy sitting with me, his feet propped up against my thighs with precious familiarity, and I was intimidated as hell (not to mention utterly vulnerable) having this huge male baboon with razor-sharp 2+ inch canines two feet from my face – something I’d never experienced. The more friendly and enthused the chattering from Gabriel, the more his huge and very real canines were openly displayed before me. Yes, he was my son, but he is also a wild animal with instincts, politics, and differences that must always be respected. And I’d been removed from his life for the last 6 years, so making behavioural assumptions wasn’t something I was keen to do.


He's totally being friendly right now. Puts you right at ease, no?

He’s totally being friendly right now. Puts you right at ease, no?


He soon closed his eyes and started to doze, lower lip peeling away, mouth creeping open, tongue peering out. I sat there, still, and waited out his cat nap. It was clear then that I couldn’t allow myself to directly engage him any further, tempting as it was. No more saying his name which he responds so readily to. No more lipsmacks. A baboon who is comfortable approaching people, even if he is the friendliest baboon in all of Africa, is a danger to himself. He would easily terrify the average person; they would not see his friendly, goofy sweetness. They would see his size, his power, his teeth, his proximity and his potential. And scared humans are dangerous humans.


At this point of their very long rehabilitation process, to continue to engage or encourage interaction with him would have only satisfied my selfish urges for touch and connection, and held him back from the critical reverse-habituation process he and his troop are now in. It was hard – my urge to be near him was strong – but there was no way it could trump what I knew was ultimately in his best interest. When he woke up, and casually walked across my legs to resume foraging, I knew it would be irresponsible of me to allow that to happen again. So as hard as it was, from then on, whenever he walked towards me, I walked away. When he’d look at me and pin his ears back, I’d bite my lip and try to explain with my eyes.


Laser Beams of Love

Laser Beams of Love


I channeled all my desires to grunt, lipsmack, and groom him through my binoculars and distanced gaze in fierce laser beams of love that shot through my eyes. And I groomed him vicariously through the other females and juveniles… finding deep satisfaction when he’d have a grooming bout with a really thorough partner who’d remove the dirt from the corners of his eyes, attend to the scratch on his nose, clean out his nasal nuggets, check his teeth and ears, and rake through his hair from head to tail. And I felt such pride every time I’d see him groom anyone (which he did quite a lot). My heart and smile would feel like bursting when I’d see that now at 10 years old, fully grown man of a baboon, he still can’t lipsmack and groom at the same time. Mouth agape, lips pulled back, tongue wiggling on its side between huge canines… this being I love like no other!


The tremendous journey Gabriel is stepping into is just beginning, and our journey together is at last complete. I don’t believe I will see him again – a thought which considered on its own is quite sad, but when looked at within the context of the bigger picture is far surpassed by pride, joy and gratitude.


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The other dream that I sustained for all these many years is that of studying the release process to scientifically demonstrate the validity of CARE’s rehabilitation process to both increase support and to add to the scientific literature and primate conservation on a larger scale. The whole reason I spent two years of my life schlepping around the forest in Costa Rica chasing cat-sized monkeys through trees, up and down cliffs, was to gain the skills, experience and connections I’d need to return to the baboons to study the rehabilitation and release process at CARE. At the end of my contract in CR I was too burnt out to jump into the grad school position I had lined up and thus returned to Chico and my business in its latest iteration.


Out on the release with Stephen I was able to apply the skills I had acquired to implement a data collection system for the releases that will allow them to be analyzed in a scientifically meaningful way. And I don’t need to be the one to do it (as much as I completely love data collection in the field). Stephen can do it now. And he can train others. Others still who have the energy and enthusiasm to analyze the data, write papers and get them published. I don’t need to be the one to do all of that. I made my offering. Mission complete. Heart at ease.


And finally… I’ve seen the center. I’ve seen all the magnificent changes that have been made. I’ve seen the vision for the future and met the TEAM of dedicated people loving every moment of their journey and offering here, doing great work, taking their turn. I’ve knelt in the ruins of Rita’s home and at her grave, shed my tears and honored both her and the fire that took her life two and a half years ago.


There is peace in my heart. Completion. Freedom. No need to linger in the past. I’m ready to step forward. There is a new space in my heart ready to embrace what comes next on this epic journey of mine. I thank you all who helped me witness this dream come true: the liberation of this troop, and unexpectedly, that of myself.


Thank you Thank you Thank you
Love Love Love.
Goodbye my Loves

Goodbye, My Loves. You will live forever in my Heart.

The Dangers of Ill-preparedness & Travel

Six days until India.

I started packing today.

That may seem like I’m getting a head start on things but the truth is I’ve hardly done anything to prepare for this trip.  In fact, I’ve already interrupted this process twice now: first to wash my hair (it’s winter and I don’t believe in hair dryers so I have to act when the opportunity and temperature are conducive), and now to settle in and write on the corner of my bed that is not covered in a pile of possible things to take with me on my trip.  That’s right.  I started packing today. I didn’t get very far.

You’d think I’d have learned my lesson about Preparedness Before Travel after my offhand approach to Kenya didn’t go over so smoothly.  See, I assumed that traveling to Kenya would fit the same pattern as all my previous travels and thus I didn’t bother to do ANY research beforehand.  (In my defense, however, I was stuck in the bush with a baby to raise).

This handsome little devil named Goku.

My flight from South Africa to Nairobi was pleasant.  Upon my arrival, I began the usual circuit through the airport beginning with the passport control.  When it was my turn to present myself, the migration officer flipped through my passport and promptly asked where my visa was.  I told her (with a slightly furrowed brow) that she hadn’t given it to me yet.

“Where is your visa?”  She was impatient.

“Umm… you haven’t given it to me yet.”  Sometimes repetition does wonders.  But, not this time.

All my other travels had been simple: you land, walk up to the counter, they stamp your passport granting you a three-month visa, you get your bags, and you’re good to go.  As easy as pie.

“You don’t have a visa?!”

“Umm… No…”

I think we were mutually mystified.

Finally, once it was clear that I truly did not have my visa, she threw up her hands and instructed me to go fill out that form and get in line at that counter.

Turns out you have to get your visa for Kenya IN ADVANCE.

Oopsie.

So I filled out the visa application and I went over to that counter.  There was no one in line (am I the ONLY one who didn’t know this??) so I walked right up and handed over my application.  The man looked it over, found no egregious errors, looked over my passport and requested “50 US dollars”.

“Can I pay with my card?”

“No. Cash only.”

“Can I pay in Rands?” (South African currency).

“No. US dollars.”

“But I don’t have any dollars. I live in South Africa.”

He looked at my passport and waved it at me jeeringly.  “You are American. You have dollars.”

Noooo, I live in South Africa.  I have no dollars.”

“No dollars, no visa.”

I convinced him to let me in to the airport to find an ATM so I could get some money out.  He initially didn’t want to let me but I guess he eventually realized that my options were limited and thus conceded to let me pass.  I found an ATM which I used twice – both times without success.  I combed the airport looking for another one and with a big, fruitless search under my belt I was informed that there was only one ATM in the airport.

Crap!

I went back to it and observed a man successfully withdrawing cash.  He said he’d had trouble with it but had success when he tried to take out a smaller amount of money.

I tried my luck again, this time selecting a seemingly modest amount of Kenyan shillings.  I actually had no idea what the exchange rate was (or even what the currency was until then); another casualty of my No Preparation campaign.  Luck perched on my shoulder at that moment and rewarded me with my requested amount of money.  I tried my luck again but was only able to withdraw an even more diminutive amount.  Then Luck relieved herself on me and the ATM stopped working altogether.  I gathered my shillings, hoping they were equivalent to $50 and returned to that counter.

I asked the man what the equivalent of “50 US dollars” was in shillings as I pulled out my miniature fan of foreign-to-me currency.  He immediately and vigorously began shaking his head.

“FIFTY YOU-ESS DOLLARS!  Not shillings.  D-O-L-L-A-R-S!”

“??!!??!!??”

With no alternative, the man finally, graciously accepted all of my Shillings and all of my Rands for entry into his country: an amount well exceeding “50 US dollars”.

WELCOME TO KENYA!

Three weeks later, as I stood in line before the South African passport counter preparing to go through the process in reverse, I was awash with relief knowing how much simpler this was about to be.  I was particularly eager to hand over my Three-year Temporary Residency visa.  That was a hard-won visa and this was my first opportunity to brandish it.

I proudly handed over my passport to the woman across the counter and before she even opened it up to appreciate my special visa that said I’m-Not-Just-Any-Ol’-Traveler she queried: “Medical card?”

“…”

“Medical card.  Where is your medical card?”

Caught off-guard I completely missed what I was so sure would be an unmistakable sign of admiration at my three-year visa; a confirmation of my membership in the South African coterie clearly written on her face.  But no.  I must have missed it.

“Umm… I don’t have it with me.”  I did not understand why she was asking me this.  I’d never been questioned about a medical card before, and did not understand why it was suddenly important.  Didn’t she see my special visa???

“Where is your proof of yellow fever vaccination?”

Ohh. Turns out if you travel from Kenya to South Africa you must have a yellow fever vaccination.  News to me.

“I can’t let you into the country without proof of a yellow fever vaccination.”  There was no acknowledgement of our bond of sisterhood.  Not a trace.

Expletive.

My options were laid out for me:

1)      Go back to Kenya

Following wild baboons around the bush with my friend Richard Hoolahan.

As much as I loved Kenya and wanted to go back, just then was not the time, and it hardly solved my problem of how to get back in to South Africa.

2)      Stay in quarantine for 21 days

No, thank you.

3)      Pay R400 to get the vaccine at the airport (about $60 at current rates)

Makes you wonder why they even bothered presenting Options 1 and 2.  How about you just start with “Go get your shot over there” and if that doesn’t work out, we can discuss other options.

So the moral of this story is that you’d think I’d learn my lesson about not doing any research before traveling to a new country.  And I HAVE learned that lesson.  I’m just feeling slightly apathetic about APPLYING it.  I’m of the mindset that “It’ll all work out”.  But that said, I DID find out that I DO need an advance visa for India (which I have) and that no special vaccinations are required.

I’m just having a very difficult time getting my mind back into Travel Mode.  I mean, I just got back! I’m in Relax & Enjoy Mode.  I am in the habit of thinking very little (if at all) about tomorrow.  It has its drawbacks but overall it feels DAMN good.  I know I’m still overcompensating for my grueling time in Costa Rica so I’m not really worried about my current aptitude for “not much”.  I know this is just a phase.  Besides, that is what my trip to India is all about: coming back to center.

Chasing monkeys around Costa Rica was an amazing experience but it was full of struggle and was inherently without balance.



I think the lesson that was mercilessly pounded into my head there was the necessity of having balance in one’s life.  Thus, the purpose of my trip to India (and my goal for this year) is to seek balance in all aspects of my life: physical, spiritual, emotional, etc.  I’ve swung from one apex to the other and in six days I’ll begin my blessed journey towards the center.